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The Soulmate of Your Dreams
by Katherine A. Brown


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     Is it your turn to find your Soulmate? Do you have a longing for that one person you know is out there somewhere? The one you were born to be with; yearning to find that someone you have only seen in your dreams?

       Increase your chances of finding what you want by taking the time to hear Barry Seedman, Ph.D., as he presents "Finding Your Soulmate through Hypnosis." Doctor Seedman, Master Hypnotist, and Director of the Hypnosis Institute in NYC, has been practicing since 1983. His clients include Olympic athletes, professional boxers and major stars. Recently, Barry talked about his upcoming trip to Atlanta to conduct hypnosis certification classes, and his workshop for finding your Soulmate.

       What characterizes a Soulmate relationship? "I feel that we have lots of Soulmates. We have lots of people that we could have a really good relationship with. And there is one special person that I call a twin flame, and I do know people who have found that. That's what everybody is looking for. People know deep down, that it does exist, and it's true that there's one special person that's just for you in this world. When you find that person, the way you know it is that once you meet, you are always with that person. You will never be without that person."

      Asking him why he thinks it's so hard for people to find that special person, he said "Because they are working so hard on themselves and they are changing so rapidly, they are not finding what they want right now because they are too busy changing. Some people take a long time to change and some people find relationships right away, and they change together. The people who haven't found relationships, they're still changing. To find the person we want to be with, we must first become the person we want to be."

     How can hypnotherapy be instrumental in finding what you're looking for? "It removes the limitations, that were placed on you, by yourself and others, of why you are not going to find what you are looking for. You will never exceed your expectations. If you do not expect it, you will not find it. So number one, hypnotherapy removes those self - limiting blocks and number two, hypnotherapy lets you feel the expectancy of it."

      I asked Barry, apart from finding your Soulmate, how hypnotherapy is used to help improve or heal your current relationships? "People who have been in a relationship together know how to push each other's buttons and know how to get each other angry. Number one, all that anger has to be forgiven and let go, and number two, you can turn that energy into positive energy and understand where people are coming from, and that their intentions are really good. If you intend to stay with somebody, you don't have to allow them to anger you. I can give people triggers that allow them to respond positively to something they formerly were responding negatively to. People will keep doing the same thing to push your buttons, but it's the way you react to it that makes the difference.

      "What happens in a typical relationship is that you meet somebody and you like them," said Barry. "Then you find out that they are a rocket scientist. Now all of a sudden you're going to get stronger romantic feelings about that person. Why? Those feelings are superficial. Because somebody's got a great job, you're going to feel more romantically involved with him? So the way to create a real relationship is only by emotion. Before you talk to someone and know what they do, or where they live or what their religion is, before you know anything like that, you have to be able to get those feelings. Feelings that you would feel with that special person without knowing these things, and before you talk to them with the left-brain. That only brings you a left-brain relationship.

       "When I work with someone in the seminar, the person feels they are with that Soulmate, and I anchor that feeling within them. Then when they meet someone on the outside they get those feelings with, they know that's the possible relationship for them. Hypnosis does change your outlook about the opposite sex and gives you back your power. Past breakups take your power away and make you a victim. The idea is to desensitize that and no one can make you a victim. You aren't a victim; it was just an experience that brought you to the next level of where you needed to be. Why do people want a relationship? Feelings. Feeling better about themselves. So rather than thoughts, people need a relationship based upon feelings."

      Is it your turn to find your Soulmate?

      See Barry Seedman on July 6th at 11:00 a.m., on the Peachtree Morning Show, and again at "Finding Your Soulmate Through Hypnosis," Thursday, July 6th, at the Crowne Plaza Hotel, Powers Ferry. For information call
1-800-494-9766.

     

Katherine A. Brown is an Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist,
Reiki Master and freelance writer. Contact her at 770-640-8114.