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In Your Stars! Astrological Advice for You
By
Donna Page
Dear Donna
 Please
help. My romantic life has always been crazy, but recently I met someone
new and it finally feels like what I always wanted. Somehow this relationship
is different. I feel his strength and love very deeply. We met nine
months ago but just recently began our romantic involvement. There is
only one problem: he is married (unhappily for years) and his wife is
completely dependent on him. She is a good person and neither I nor
my friend want to hurt her. I am 32 and ready to have a good relationship.
What is up, what does it look like for his marriage, will he leave his
wife? – In Love and Anxious.
Dear In Love and Anxious,
Your chart indicates that you have many relationship challenges. Your
Venus, the planet of love, is square Neptune, which indicates falling
in love with an ideal, not the reality. The planet Uranus, the god of
sudden change and unexpected surprises, is influencing your natal Venus
Neptune square. This creates much tension and indicates that the universe
will send you a relationship that will reflect the lessons that you
came in to learn. Like magic your new friend is right on time. Your
friend has a deep need to be needed and liked. He is somewhat of the
savior and will hold onto a relationship unless it is “ripped”
from him (Venus conjunct Pluto). His moon in Scorpio conjunct Neptune
indicates his strong passionate romantic nature, feeding into your need
for deep passion (moon in Scorpio) and your desire for the romantic
ideal (Venus in Virgo square Neptune). In addition your synastry together
(how the two charts fit together) is very powerful, pulling you both
together in what could feel very fated and destined.
There is a bumpy astro ride ahead for both of you. He may have come
into your life to let you know that the love you want is possible and
to assist you in understanding the core beliefs you possess around relationships.
Do you believe “I can't have what I want in a man, something
always is not complete”? Your chart has an indication of a profound
fear of abandonment. This relationship may have entered into your life
to help heal childhood wounds. Allow yourself to take the time necessary
to feel what you feel as it arises on the roller coaster ride the universe
has offered you and stay centered. Even the most wild and bizarre ride
has a center point of stillness; go within and seek the stillness. The
ride has just begun, you will find greater clarity in June when the
planets powerfully aspect your chart. You may have a change of mind
and circumstances can lead you towards demanding from the Goddess within
to manifest a divine relationship that is whole and complete.
Dear Donna,
I have been frustrated and unhappy for what seems like years. I am 52
years old and still am asking myself what is my life purpose? –
Ready to Know.
Dear Ready to Know,
Your chart indicates a great need to serve. Your Pisces ascendant and
your Virgo moon both represent contribution to a higher purpose. Yet
there is a dichotomy between serving others and taking care of self.
Pluto, the planet of transformation is opposing your Sun, demanding
transformation, change, and deep inner growth. What is your life purpose?
Many times we want to believe it is one thing, one purpose, one special
thing to do that will fulfill us, but life is deeper and richer than
that. Your life purpose, your work, is whatever life puts into your
path that will further your own personal development and growth (indicated
by Jupiter the ruler of the 10th in the first). When we feel we are
not “on purpose” with our life it is an indication of not
doing our chart. Where in your life have you been neglecting your self?
Jupiter in the 1st house in Aries wants something adventurous and spontaneous.
Your north node in Pisces requests spiritual development. How much time
in your daily or weekly life do you devote to spiritual growth? Your
Sun in the fourth needs your home to be safe, comfortable, and secure.
What in your living space is not providing that? Happiness is indicated
by the ruler of the 5th house, which is your moon in Virgo in the 7th.
How is your diet? How often do you exercise and what form of exercise
inspires you? How content are you with your romantic and platonic relationships?
My recommendation is to develop a life plan looking at all the areas
of your life using your chart as a guideline. As you become truer to
your divine plan, following the guide of your chart, the gnawing feeling
within will subside, your intuitive inner voice will be heard, and you
will be gently guided towards more peace.
Donna
Page MS is a licensed astrologer specializing in the current influences
surrounding you and empowering you to live the life you want. Email
your questions to dmpage@joimail.com
or call 770-621-2299.
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