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Parenting
The Crystal Child
By
Jean Adrienne
The children who are being born now are radically different from
those of us born as the parents of their parents, but the same
rules that applied to child-rearing twenty years ago still apply
today. Actually, they are more important today than ever before,
because this new 'breed' of child, the crystal child,
implies and requires additional care on the part of the parent.
These new children have very special gifts. They use their minds
to do so much more than we ever considered: moving objects, reading
the minds of others, even seeing things that are invisible to
their parents and grandparents... angels, perhaps? They have the
ability to magnify any energy they feel. What is foreign to them
is fear. They are beings of pure love.
Any child, and correspondingly all of our 'inner children,'
believes that everything received by his or her senses is the
truth. This continues up until about age five. This has always
been true, but it makes it so much more important for the parents
of the crystal child to be judicious in guarding what their children
are allowed to receive, because not only do these kids receive
with the five traditional senses, but they receive telepathically
as well.
Every child comes into this world as a clean slate and begins
to develop his or her idea of what this world is based on sensation.
Out of parental fear that harm might come to the child, we begin
to limit those sensations early on with 'no'. It's
one of the first words this child learns! And, it begins the process
of teaching that it's 'not okay' for the child to
just be. With these new kids, we don't even have to say the
word to instill it!
Here’s an example: the toddler runs up to her daddy when
he comes home from work and joyfully begins showing him toys,
chattering in baby talk. He's had a rough day at the office
and is exhausted, pushes her away and yells at his wife, “Will
you please come take this child so I can have some peace and quiet?”
The child senses rejection and does not feel loved. The lesson
might be, 'it's not ok to share and talk with my daddy.'
Of course, this is not what he had in mind, and probably never
even occurred to him, but it's a lesson nonetheless. Much
of the trauma I find in my InnerSpeak therapy work stems from
seemingly insignificant instances such as this!
Since fear is not part of the make-up of the crystal child, when
they encounter it, they magnify it and send it back in the direction
it came from. This will propose an interesting phenomenon for
their parents! If we look at fear as any emotion that is not love,
dealing with an upset child, that then increases the upset of
the parent and will make calming and correcting the situation
much more difficult. Finding behavior modification tools for the
Crystals will be a bit challenging, because the old methods just
won't work. If the child is able to 'plug' the parent
into their energy, or vice versa, negativity will increase. The
only tools that will prove successful will be those based on love
and positive feedback. Whatever, the situation that arises will
need to be handled in a manner that leads to a 'yes' rather
than a 'no.'
Some of the Crystals will be late talkers. It is being shown that
they are being  misdiagnosed
as autistic or having other similar problems. They, however, can
communicate telepathically, so the need to talk is not so strong
as it has been for children in the past. We must resist the temptation
to label or medicate them, and let them develop at their own pace.
The Crystal Children are extremely inquisitive. Feed that enthusiasm
with more questions for them, rather than limiting their field.
These children will KNOW what is true and what is not. Bribing
and lying to them will not work, because they will instinctively
know what is in your mind. We are moving into a time where there
can be no more lies. These kids are coming in now to take us to
a more loving world. Who could ask for a better plan? It is the
duty of each parent, then, to support the child with creative
and loving environments for their individual development.
Jean
Adrienne is a healing facilitator, teacher and author of Soul
Adventures. For more information contact her at 404.934.0714
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